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5 online gaming safety tips to support children
Online gaming can be a fantastic way for children to learn, explore, and connect with friends. But with that comes some unique challenges and risks. As a parent or carer, you can take a few simple steps to help your child enjoy gaming safely, keeping their experiences both fun and positive.
Familiarising yourself with your child’s favourite games can help you identify any potential risks, such as age-inappropriate content or access to online chats with strangers.
Check age ratings
Many games come with age ratings, similar to films. These ratings offer guidance on the suitable age range for each game. Check them out to ensure the games are appropriate for your child’s age.
Know the game content
Spend a few minutes watching the game or reading up on it. This helps you understand what your child is being exposed to and whether it aligns with your family values.
Most gaming platforms offer parental control settings, giving you tools to manage what your child can see, spend, and who they can interact with.
Restrict in-app purchases
Many games have in-app purchases that can lead to unexpected charges. You can set up password-protected spending limits or disable purchasing altogether.
Manage screentime
Parental controls allow you to set daily or weekly limits on gaming time. This way, your child can balance gaming with other important activities.
Control interactions
Gaming controls can also restrict who can contact your child. You may choose to limit chat features or allow interactions only with approved friends.
Creating a safe space for your child to talk about their online experiences makes it easier for them to approach you if they encounter any issues.
Ask about their gaming
Show interest in what games they enjoy, who they’re playing with, and what they like about it. This can also help you learn about their gaming environment.
Discuss online safety
Help your child understand the importance of keeping personal information private. Remind them that they shouldn’t share their real name, address, or school with online friends.
Address cyberbullying
Let your child know they can come to you if they experience or witness any bullying or mean behaviour in games. Reassure them that they won’t get in trouble for seeking help.
Establishing a routine helps children manage their time online and builds healthy habits.
Create a gaming schedule
Setting a gaming schedule that includes regular breaks and time for other activities can help prevent overuse. Consider working together to create a routine that works for both of you.
Encourage balance with other bobbies
Balancing gaming with outdoor play, reading, and other interests promotes overall well-being and reduces the chances of gaming addiction.
Personal information, once shared, is hard to take back, so teaching children privacy best practices is essential.
Use a safe username
Encourage your child to use a screen name that doesn’t reveal their real name or any other identifying details. This can help protect their identity online.
Explain the importance of privacy
Children may not realise the risks of sharing personal information with online friends. Remind them to avoid sharing any real-life details.
Are you new to online gaming?
See our online gaming basics to get to grips with the basics of online gaming. You’ll get advice on what is, what children are actually doing while they are gaming and much more.
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Need advice on specific games kids are playing?
See the following articles to get tailored advice on all you need to know about the most popular games and platforms that children use.
Did you know gaming can grow children’s skills?
While there are plenty of watch-outs about online gaming, it can also offer a lot of benefits like improving early reading skills, developing problem-solving skills and helping to nurture relationships. See our online gaming benefits guide for more support.
Supporting children with additional needs
Many children with additional needs enjoy online video games. Games often help them to regulate their emotions, connect with others and develop useful skills.
However, video games can also lead to increased screen time, overstimulation and feel more like a chore than a safe haven.
Explore the following tips to help keep your child’s experience with games online positive.
Parental controls are available across consoles and games themselves. Set controls appropriate to your child’s development and understanding of online safety.
As they develop and learn, revisit the controls and reduce restrictions where it makes sense to help them build independence.
Whether you’re interested in the game or not, showing a willingness to join their favourite game can help your child feel understood.
It’s a great way to bond, learn more about their interests and talk about how to stay safe.
Research shows that some children with additional needs will continue to play games even if they don’t enjoy their time.
Discuss with them what this might feel like for them such as happy/sad or physical signs and encourage them to try something else when they notice these signs. You may need to practise with them before it becomes habit.
Agree on moments where your child should pause and check in with you or another trusted adult. For example, when someone says something confusing in chat, when they feel upset or when a situation in the game starts to feel stressful.
Write and display these stop points as a reminder to take a break and tell you.
Online games can be very engaging, and children with additional needs might need extra support to regulate their own playtime.
Try creating a concrete timetable and displaying visual timers to help with screen time limits and transitions to other activities.
Looking to support a child with other needs?
Our research shows that children who are care-experienced or part of the LGBTQ+ community are also more likely to experience online risks.
Visit our hubs to get tailored advice to help them stay safe within online games.
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