How to deal with inappropriate content
If your child has stumbled across adult content, explore our guide to supporting them
Seeing inappropriate content at a young age can leave children feeling confused and unable to process what they have seen or experienced. Get advice on how to support them and help them recover.
Quick tips
4 ways to deal with inappropriate content
If anyone or anything makes your child feel scared, confused or uncomfortable, empower them to report it. That might include using platform reporting functions or talking to you (or both).
Even if they are unsure about a person’s intention, they should report. No one will know they took that action, and it could protect them and others from potential harm. It’s better to over report than under report.
If someone has acted inappropriately towards your child, particularly in a sexual way, you should report it immediately to CEOP.
If your child views inappropriate content — by accident or on purpose — remember to stay calm, especially if they brought it up themselves.
Let them think about their responses and lead the conversation. Although difficult, try not to jump to conclusions or react rashly. You want them to feel comfortable coming to you for future issues too.
Work out together how to remove content and make amends for any harm caused. And if they find it hard to talk to you, let them know they can always contact a confidential helpline like Childline or The Mix if they need more support.
Regardless of what your child has viewed, you might need support for yourself. It’s important to remember that you’re not alone, and there are likely other parents dealing with similar issues.
You can explore our own parent stories or our list of resources for parents and carers to get support.
If your child comes across inappropriate content at school or via another student, it’s important to involve their school.
Mum, Emma, recounts a student sending her daughter a violent video on the bus. “Once they knew,” says Emma, “the schools were very good about it, and the bus company got involved. Also, the young people themselves were spoken to at school and there were consequences.” Read her full story here.
Involving the school will help you share the responsibility with other trusted adults. Additionally, they will likely have previous similar experiences to draw on and will know how best to proceed.
- When to report adult content
- How do I report inappropriate content?
- How to talk about it
- My child is actively searching for adult content
When to report adult content
Some online spaces are designed for adults only while others allow children as well. Regardless of the site, platform or app, there are Terms of Service or similar documents that outline what is and is not okay to share.
For social media platforms that allow users aged 13+, their Terms of Service will clearly outline which content is inappropriate. Most often, this include nudity and violence.
If your child comes across content that makes them uncomfortable on social media or other spaces that children can legally access, they should report it to the platform.
Additionally, if someone directly sends your child a message that includes inappropriate content, including videos or photos, they should tell you.
You can then decide whether you need involve a platform, teachers or even police.
How do I report inappropriate content?
If you or your child come across any content that is illegal, incites violence or hatred, here is what you can do to report the content:
- Reporting indecent images of children – If you or your child come across any illegal sexual images of children report them to the Internet Watch Foundation.
- Reporting inappropriate content social – Use our set-up-safe guides to see how to report to the relevant providers e.g. Facebook, YouTube using the ‘flag’ or ‘report’ links near the content.
- Reporting hate speech online – Content that incites hatred should be reported via True Vision.
- Reporting extremist material – Content which relates to terrorism should be reported via the Counter Terrorism Internet Referral Unit.
- Report Harmful Content provides a vital service for individuals who have witnessed or experienced harm online.
Report any content you’re concerned about, for example, sexual or violent content that appears in adverts, films, television programmes or video games, using Ofcom.
How to talk about it
If your child does stumble across something inappropriate online, it’s important to talk with them about it.
Firstly, establish whether if they stumbled onto the content accidentally or were simply curious and went looking for it. If an accident, reassure them that it’s not a bad thing and show understanding. Stay calm and discuss what they have seen and how it has made them feel to assess what emotional support they may need.
If they went looking for it, have an honest conversation about why they felt the need to. Approaching the conversation with calm and openness can help them think critically about their actions and how it might impact them.
Alternatively, if your child doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you about what they saw, encourage them to talk with a counsellor or helpline like Childline.
Protecting children and young people from inappropriate content online
My child is actively searching for adult content
If you’re concerned that your child is searching for content that is inappropriate, the first step is to have an open and frank conversation about what they are viewing.
Nobody likes to think that their own child could be a cyberbully, but young people can sometimes be drawn into this behaviour without realising the impact of their actions. We have tips and advice on what to do if your child is a cyberbully.
- Stay calm and try to find out what makes them want to access and watch this content.
- It’s important to not threaten to take away devices as it may drive this behaviour underground and stifle future conversation about what they do online.
- If they feel uncomfortable talking to you, give them contact details for organisations like Childline to talk about the issues and get some impartial advice.
- If they are watching extreme content or actively taking part in forums which incite self-harm, it may be helpful to reach out to an organisation like YoungMinds parent helpline who can offer advice on where to seek face-to-face support on this issue.
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