To help parents who’ve raised concerns that their children are receiving unsolicited messages on wishbone app, we’ve compiled expert tips on how to keep them safe on the app.
Launched in 2015 Wishbone describes itself as “the go-to for comparing anything your heart desires,” with over 3.1 million active monthly users globally. It is targeted at and is particularly popular with, teenage girls.
What is the Wishbone’s Minimum age?
The Terms and Conditions don’t clearly specify but according to Common Sense Media 15+ would be recommended.
How does it work?
Creating an account
It is possible to log in using other social media apps such as Facebook and Instagram but, if you choose not to, the site gives you a username and you begin acquiring followers straight away.
What can you do on the app?
Users are presented with two ‘cards’ and are asked to choose a preference. Users are also able to produce their own cards for others to select their preference. Some of the cards can include revealing outfits and there can be the incidence of inappropriate language in some of the comments that can be written underneath a card and on the user-generated cards.
How safe is the Wishbone app?
In terms of safety, users are able to write comments underneath cards or, in the case that two users follow one another, send other users a direct message using a facility which is very similar to a chat room. Some users have generated cards including images of people that they know for other site users to select the prettiest or hottest.
Users of Wishbone are invited to create a public profile and bio. Whilst it is possible to use the app without revealing any personal information, in choosing to link the app to other social media accounts, it is possible for Wishbone to accumulate a large amount of personal information from users. This profile of the user is then widened by their expressed preferences whilst using the app. Users are then exposed to a high volume of targeted advertising.
Concerns about the app
Why do teens love the app?
It offers teens an escape and could be considered like reading a magazine while you are waiting for an appointment. Most of the content is centred around popular celebrities and fashion.
What do other parents say about the app?
According to the Common Sense Media site, many parents have concerns about the direct messaging functionality that enables teens can speak to people they don’t know in real life in without any restrictions or safeguards in place. See full comments from parents.
You can report content that may be upsetting or inappropriate on the app by simply selecting the three dots on the top right side of the app and selecting report.
To block a user, simply navigate to the user’s page and select the three dots on the top right side of the app and click ‘Block user’.
Click on the three dots
Choose from options
Select reason for reporting
1. Talk to them about online risks and sharing safety
Help your child understand how to deal with different online risks that they may be exposed to on the app such as cyberbullying or inappropriate content. Give them the tools to recognise the difference between ‘real friends and followers. See our expert social tips to help start the conversation.
2. Make sure they are Share Aware
Help them to think more carefully about what they post and who it may be seen by so that they protect themselves.
3. Check minimum age of app
Check that your child is the minimum age required to be on the app as content will be aimed at children over 13 years old.
4. Protect their personal data
Advise your child not to link the app to their other social account so it does not pull in personal information into their Wishbone account and draw information about their friends. Also, make sure they choose an anonymous username and a strong password to protect their content.
If you’d like to learn more about Wishbone and other similar apps, here are some places you can visit: