online gaming

Online gaming means you can play in real time with people across the world through a computer, games console, tablet or smartphone connected to the internet. Games can offer children a world of adventure to immerse themselves in, but it’s important to understand how children can stay safe and what games are appropriate for their age.


of 3-4 year-olds play games on a tablet device ¹


of parents are worried about aspects of their child’s game playing ²


of children play online against people they haven’t met in person ³

What do I need to know about online gaming?

Gaming is a fun and sociable way to spend time, encouraging teamwork and developing skills. All good stuff, but there are a few things you need to be aware of:

Get involved by finding out what type of games your child enjoys and making sure they’re appropriate for their age

Some games let children play and chat with anyone in the world. This means they might come across offensive language and bullying

Not everyone online is who they say they are. Children should avoid giving out personal details that could identify them or their location

Some games encourage players to buy extra elements during the game – children have been known to run up large bills without realising

In extreme cases bullying, also known as ‘griefing’, can be used as a tactic to win games. Children may find themselves either bullying or being bullied.

Keeping your child safe whilst online gaming

There is nothing like sitting down with your children and joining in some of their games to find out just why they find them such fun. Here’s how to keep their gaming experience healthy:

Find out what sort of games your children enjoy – do they prefer role-play games, sports games, strategy and quest games or first-person shooter games?

Ask who they play with online, who they meet and talk to, and what kind of language is being used in live chat (usually via headphones). Gaming sites often have ways of reporting abusive chat and excluding anti-social players. Make sure your child knows how to do this

Especially for younger children, change the settings on your tablet or smartphone to ‘airplane’ mode. That way, they can play the game offline without making accidental purchases or connecting with someone they don’t know

Make sure you and your family agree what games can be played and that children understand why some games are allowed and others aren’t. Agree how long they’re allowed to play for

Teach your children to protect themselves – remind them not to share personal information and to keep gaming friends in the game only rather than adding them to their other social networks

Read each game’s advice for parents and play the game yourself to help you understand more about how the game your child is playing works and its appropriateness.

Use our interactive guide to parental controls to find out more about keeping your children safe when they’re online gaming.

Check out the PEGI rating

The PEGI (Pan European Gaming Information) labels appear on a game’s packaging indicating one of the following age levels: 3, 7, 12, 16 and 18. They provide a reliable indication of the suitability of the game content for different ages. Descriptors will indicate the main reasons why a game has received a particular age rating. There are eight such descriptors: bad language, discrimination, drugs, fear, gambling, sex, violence and online gameplay with other people. If you’d like to know more about these see ‘Pegi games ratings explained’ from Parent Info.


The links below will help you navigate the world of online gaming, from setting parental controls to finding suitable games for your children:

Ask about games

This site, from the Association of UK Interactive Entertainment, has information about safe gaming including setting parental controls on different games consoles.

Pan-European Game Information

Find out more about what the age ratings on games mean.

UK Safer Internet Centre

This parents’ guide to gaming devices tells you everything you need to know about the different types of games and consoles that exist.


Common Sense Media

Search for reviews and updates on games which are appropriate for the age of your child.

Parents Protect!

Top tips for parents on safe gaming.

Everybody Plays

An online gaming safety resource with a useful Parent’s Guide to Games, a one stop shop where families can find everything they need to get started.


  1. Ofcom Children and Parents: Media Use and Attitudes Report (Oct 2014) p.77, Figure 44
  2. Ofcom Children and Parents: Media Use and Attitudes Report (Oct 2014) p.157, Figure 117
  3. Ofcom Children and Parents: Media Use and Attitudes Report (Oct 2014) p.85, Figure 52