Is your teen dating someone online?
Take a look at 10 useful tips for parents to help teens make safer choices when it comes to dating online.

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Quick tips
Follow these quick tips to help your teen navigate online relationships and dating safely.
Use privacy settings
Help your teen set up their accounts to limit who can contact them. Encourage them to only accept friend requests from people they know.
Keep privacy private
Encourage your teen to stick to conversation topics about hobbies and interests without giving away private information that can identify their location.
Talk regularly
Have regular conversations with your teen about who they talk to online. Ask them about dating and relationships… even if it feels awkward.
Top tips to support your teen
Here are ten tips to equip teens with the tools they need to make safer choices about who they interact with romantically online.
Discuss the risks
Not everyone your teen meets online will have the right intentions. So, it’s important to discuss the risks surrounding online dating such as online grooming and sextortion.
Explore what signs to look out for to avoid putting themselves in unsafe situations. Additionally, empower them to say ‘no’ or shut down conversations when they feel uncomfortable.
Help them protect their identity
Keeping certain personal information private such as their location, address and where they attend school or college is important.
Use the right privacy settings across all their social accounts can help them stay on top of what information is available for everyone to see.
TIP: Doing a search of their name with a search engine like Google is a simple way of checking out what information about them exists online.
Talk about healthy relationships and behaviour
- Talk with them about trust, sex and intimacy, and the appropriate behaviours for them and their partner. This will help ensure they stay balanced when coming across things that are false or misleading.
- Discuss tech dangers. Sometimes teens are tempted to send nude photos . Unfortunately, there have been cases where these pictures have become public.
- Make sure they understand they have the right to say no and that anyone who cares about them should respect that.
Agree on boundaries
Help your teen learn skills that build up their critical thinking and digital resilience when it comes to exploring dating online:
- Create a space where they feel able to talk openly about their digital life.
- Encourage them to share details with you about potential dates – to stay engaged provide your support.
- Remind them not to meet up with online friends alone. If they do, it should be with a trusted adult and in a public place.
- Sexual communication with a child is a criminal offence. Make sure your child knows that adults who want to talk about sex are doing something wrong and should be reported.