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Online Bullying

Is it funny or is it hate?

In this lesson, children learn how what we say online, including jokes, can spread hate and that digital reactions don't always tell the whole truth. They learn what to do if they see hate online and how to get support for themselves. Login to access the lesson and companion guide, slides, handouts and more.

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Parent and carer guide

In this guide, learn more about online hate and find resources to support your child's learning. It includes a quiz to play with your child.

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Interactive Learning

This section features quiz questions based on the teacher lesson plan. It is best completed in the classroom.

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Once Upon Online

This story is a great activity to do together with your child. Make choices together or go on your own journeys to talk about where you both end up!

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Parent tips

  • Talk about why it can be hard to tell if someone is hurt online


    - Explain that online messages don’t show facial expressions or tone of voice.
    - Someone might laugh along with a joke to avoid embarrassment or conflict.

  • Encourage children to pause before joining in


    Ask reflective questions such as:

    -“How would you feel if someone said that about you?”
    -“Would you want others to share that message?”

    This helps children think beyond the moment.

  • Support children to speak up safely


    Let children know they don’t have to respond publicly to support someone.

    Encourage them to:

    - check in with a friend privately
    - avoid sharing or liking hurtful content
    - come to you if they’re unsure what to do.

  • Show children what to do if bullying happens


    Talk through actions such as:

    - blocking or muting
    -reporting the behaviour
    -saving messages if they need support later

    Remind them that getting help is important, whether they were involved or just witnessed it.

    Online bullying often happens between people children know from school or friendship groups, making it harder to ignore or leave the situation.